expectations

a famous saying that goes, 'the higher the expectations, the bigger the disappointment'

i always have expectations in things i do, and i also have expectations towards people around me.

and with those little expectations summing up altogether, i am facing a sky high disappointments in me. darn..

so from this moment onward, i will try not to have any more expectations.

maybe with this kind of attitude, i will be happier, merrier, and more free will.

the same goes in relationships. i expect nothing already from it. Oprah Winfrey mentioned that she is glad she is not married until this day, because to her, being married means there is expectations.

if the expectations are not met, people are bound to get disappointed and eventually, the marriage will not work.

i have expectations in my past relationships, and they didn't work. i guess, i learned my lesson..

i have expectations in my future, and it didn't go the way i wanted. yes, i learned my lesson.

so now i rip all my expectations, tore down those i must achieve lists, erase those judgement on how people should act..

and just, celebrate life.